As anyone who knows me knows, that I’m not an advocate of dieting. I have tried ‘intuitive eating’ but my intuition seems to want chocolate, snacks and sometimes just plain out junk food. Eating this way has yet to help me get to my natural weight as they proclaim. Not that I doubt it works for some people, but maybe it just doesn’t work for me. Or maybe I just haven’t figured it out exactly. I am not sure what the issue is. I wonder with all the stuff in my past that revolved around food, my intuition isn’t a bit off still.
I gained weight last winter not exercising much and when my thyroid stopped working just a little bit more so I become even more hypothyroid (aka a slug). Even when you get your medication adjusted to put you back at normal TSH level, your body doesn’t magically shed the pounds it’s gained. I wish that were so. I gained roughly 25-30 lbs over this period that even with all the exercising I did this summer, I’ve lost 0 lbs. Exercising isn’t an issue for me because I am one of those freaky people who loves certain kinds of exercise (not a gym rat). Eating is my issue. So I went back to “My Plate” app and started using the food tracking option again to help me see what all I am eating.
Food journals tend to feel restrictive to me in general and then I rebel against the whole idea of them which means I eat too much. I really don’t like anyone telling me what to do very much anyway, even if it’s in my best interest. I am trying hard to look at the food journal as a tool to help me eat better. I started using it on Sunday and today is Friday so for 5 days. Each day I weigh myself and record it which I have to look at as simply data. Weight is just a number, it may or may not show progress. Which is why I have also added taking my measurements once a month. I will be cautious of anything that makes me feel anxious which can send me back to eating poorly and bingeing a bit.
So over five days, just keeping within 1800-2000 calories a day as per what my app has chosen for me. I’ve also done BMR calculations and checked a few other sources so that seems to be a good start. The purpose of weighing and measurements has to be looked at purely scientific. Is the way that I am eating good for my body? Is it making me healthier? Not that I weigh X amount or am a size 0. In five days, I have lost three pounds which tells me, I need to eat a little closer to 2000 calories rather than 1800. That 1800 calories may be too restrictive and I don’t want to do something to slow my metabolism further. This is all just guesswork to be honest. I am certainly no expert. This is simply to teach me better eating habits and show me where I might be sabotaging myself.
The biggest thing I noticed is that I think I eat pretty good. I don’t do bad but I definitely was not eating as healthy as I believed I was by using intuitive eating. This is what makes me think that at least my intuition about what my body needs may not be quite as keen as other people or I am still eating emotionally at times or out of boredom. I’ve noticed that when I am sitting still is a time I want to just eat for the sake of eating. I want to get into the ice cream, cheese and crackers and so on. At this point, when I’m sitting and not doing much of anything like watching tv or even reading, these are moments where I am not hungry but yet the desire to eat is extremely strong. Or if I get stressed or upset at work which can be quite frequently.
So far the food journal is a good tool to help me figure out where I need work as far as the food I consume. Mindless eating, bored eating, stress eating and simply poor food choices are the top of my list to work on. Considering I haven’t lost any weight for months and the moment I start paying attention to what I am shoving down my gullet I start losing weight shows me that yes, obviously what I am eating isn’t the best. Nothing all that complicated and really pretty simple as well as the fact that its easy to tell yourself that you are a healthy eater when in reality, you’re not.
My only goals are to eat healthy and become much more fit. I do not have any size or weight goals. Frankly, I don’t care what size I am or what I weigh outside of it would be nice to shop in Misses rather than Plus size only because the selections are still pretty limited with plus size. If I go into a store that carries both plus and misses sizes, I inevitably end up staring longingly at a top or dress that does not come in plus sizes. If a clothing retailer wanted to really make a bunch of money, carry everything in both ends of the spectrum so the plus-sized gal isn’t standing there feeling “Damn, I wish I was smaller so I could buy that super cute pair of jeans or sexy dress”. One of my favorite Lutheran pastors is a very nontraditional woman and she runs a church called “House of All Sinners and Saints”. I think I would name a store like that “House for All Sizes”. Wouldn’t that be cool? Then when you shop with your girlfriends, if you aren’t all the same size range, then no one is left standing there feeling a teeny bit awkward as they browse the scarves or accessories because there is nothing in their size in the store.
I want to be healthier and fit because I want to be able to do more physically. I want to ride my bike further, faster and longer. I want to hike faster and longer. Maybe even run if my crickety joints will allow me. I want to look in the mirror and see someone who is even stronger than she is now. I want to have more energy and feel better. Already five days into tracking my food, I noticed that I feel less sluggish and tired. It is all about self-care for me. Taking the best possible care of myself whether it be eating healthy, exercise, trying to get enough sleep, saying no to things I do not want to do, do things that I enjoy and get more out of life in general.
I’m not going to be posting weight updates or anything of that nature, but I may do a follow-up to how the process is going. I’m really excited about this which is unusual because normally using a food journal feels like a diet, like prison. This time my mindset is that it is simply a tool to help me be the best I can be and feel the best I can.